How to avoid making mistakes in love
Most people think that love is an instinct and does not need to be operated, but love has scarred them all over and over again.
In order to get love, you must first learn to love yourself, because you are the only constant in your life, and the only thing you can rely on forever is yourself.
It is you who need to listen, understand, teach and restore your potential.
Maybe your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend has hurt your self-esteem, and the relationship in front of you is not ideal. These all affect your method and attitude to deal with the problem at hand, but what should you do in the future?
How can you break free from the shackles of the past, no longer overlap the self-deceiving stereotypes, and truly love your life and live a good life?
First of all, the first thing to explain is that love takes time, income, sensitivity and wisdom to operate.
Gender relations are not simple in the first place and will not be simple in the future.
If you want to have a perfect and perfect gender relationship, you must invest time and effort before you can find it, take care of it, and last long and be strong.
We often feel that the situation is not good, and we know that there is room for salvation, but what countermeasures to take, how to proceed, what are the reasons, etc. have left us very confused and overwhelmed.
How to avoid love mistakes?
1. Don’t rush to develop close relationships and let love develop naturally.
2. Communicate more, tell your lover clearly your needs and your feelings, and be more considerate of his difficulties. It is not easy to be empathetic and requires your efforts.
3. If you want to reject unfair budgets in advance, safeguard your power, and uphold your principles, then you need to establish your own philosophy of life.
4. Don’t be arrogant or authoritarian.
5. Don’t try to control what you can’t do, and help the other half in essence (such as if his career is frustrated and the economy is in crisis, then what you should do is to help him stand up and continue to work hardInstead of giving financial help) If he has this need, he can’t pamper him and think he can be his savior.
Don’t abuse your sympathy to the incurable person, you should grasp your own life.
6, respect your lover, do not take it for granted that what he does for you.
7. Keep a passion for love.
The above seven items must be paid attention to.
There is no close relationship between men and women. The relationship between them should be a unique individual with its special needs.
Men and women with sound sexual relations will face the challenges of love in a more active and responsible manner and will never escape.
Facing the problem, exploring possible solutions and improving each other’s relationship are not only the necessary skills to maintain a good home, but also improve your self-esteem and respect for the other half, and deepen your attachment to this relationship.
Like other skills, diligent practice will surely reach the top.
Next time when your relationship needs improvement, reviewing past successful problems or making breakthroughs in communication can make you more handy.
High-quality gender relations are fair, co-operative, considerate and respectful.
We yearn for a perfect and perfect gender relationship, because it can enrich our lives and enrich the meaning of life.
In fact, most of the common problems in gender relations come from the basic ideas and thoughts inherent in both parties.
We all make mistakes. No one is perfect. They are built on the traditional framework. Unhealthy gender relations lead to these errors, and there is little room for improvement or salvation.
The rules of the game in the new era are: support each other, be courageous in expression, and be equal and fair to each other.
What we desperately need is a new set of ideas and doctrines before we can have a fair and equal gender relationship that we deserve.
New, healthier, and more practical concepts of men and women and gender relations are constantly emerging.
It all depends on whether you have the heart and the ability to achieve your good wishes.
Nineteen important elements of a healthy gender relationship: 1. Don’t hinder making yourself weaker, face your weaknesses frankly, and have the courage to admit your mistakes.
2. Make yourself feel and express various emotions, including anger.
3. Feel and express your love for the other half, admiration and respect.
4. Maintain high self-esteem.
5. Always communicate sincerely.
6. Build relationships through shared experiences, such as remembering the past, planning the future, and having fun together. 7. Have a passionate sex life.
8. Define personal boundaries and respect each other.
9. Take responsibility for your own life and support the other half.
10. Willing to try new things alone or with the other half.
11. When the relationship between the two parties lights up red, be alert and face it openly so that you can actively face the problem together.
12, living together, let each other become each other’s most valuable asset without burden.
13. Make an oath and keep your promise.
14, think more of the other’s good, less of the other’s bad.
15. Have your own business and don’t become an accessory of the other party.
This is especially important for female friends16, to pursue personal development and not to make personal sacrifices to maintain the family.
17. Both parties share the obligations of the family.
18. Talking about feelings is the same as talking about business. Undercapitalized business alliances are bound to fail. If you don’t pay attention to the balance of the relationship, the relationship will be difficult to last.
19, constantly remind each other to love each other.